Behavior Strategies for your Child

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Tracy Gale, PsyD, HSPP, and Emmaleigh Badeaux, BS
Children’s tantrums can be challenging for parents. Tantrums can be triggered by the desire to obtain access to a favorite item, to escape a situation, to get attention or to meet a sensory need. Luckily, there are strategies for making such outbursts less frequent while also teaching our children better ways to communicate their needs.
Here are some time-tested techniques:
Tell your child what to do, instead of what not to do.
When directions are stated in a positive manner, they quickly inform a child of your expectations. Instead of telling your child to “stop running,” say “please walk” to clearly and positively state your expectation for behavior.
Praise your child specifically.
When praising your child, be specific about what they did to earn it. Instead of saying, “Good job” try “Good job walking down the hall!” Again, this is an effort to identify expectations plainly. When a child knows how to earn praise, they are more likely to engage in appropriate behaviors.
Provide choices.
When you give a command, try to phrase it as a choice. That way, the choice is not whether to complete the task, but instead how to complete it.  Aim to provide two choices within the command, such as, “Would you like to sit in the red or blue chair at the table?” Identify your goal, as well as possible choices.
Ketwo children at table eating lunchep in mind that as children attempt to balance their desire for independence with their current skills, tantrums are bound to occur. Children often become frustrated with the discrepancies between what they want to do and what they can do. If we increase their skills by clearly stating expectations, acknowledging their strengths, and providing opportunities for decision-making, their frustration and tantrums will decrease, and everyone will feel better-equipped.
Contact us for more information about behavior strategies for your child.

2021-06-29T12:51:56-04:00June 1, 2017|Our Blog|

Better Speech & Hearing Month

Recognizing Speech-Language Professionals

As May comes to a close, we want to thank our Speech-Language professionals who assist the many individuals in our community who are living with communication disorders.
We thank our highly-skilled speech-language pathologists and professionals:

  • Theresa Armstrong
  • Erin Bailey
  • Chantal Bibeau
  • Hillary Brinson
  • Loren Crisp
  • Amy Downer
  • Sara George
  • Raynell Herring
  • Hayleigh Kanzler
  • Erin Mayer
  • Kat Muir
  • Tyler Napier
  • Joni Prihoda
  • Wendy Strickland
  • Mary Zagzebski

Accordinspeech pathologist working with young boyg to the US Department of Health & Human Services, approximately 46 million Americans experience some form of communication disorder. A communication disorder can affect all aspects of an individual’s life — from social and recreational activities to educational and vocational areas.
Each year, the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders and the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association join resources to create awareness of communication disorders.
Learn more about speech-language therapy at Easterseals Crossroads

2021-06-29T12:51:56-04:00May 25, 2017|Our Blog|

Resolving Sibling Conflicts

Tracy Gale, PsyD, HSPP and Emmaleigh Badeaux, BS
child making One of the most common behavioral challenges reported by families is sibling conflict. Siblings live in close proximity, compete for limited resources, and may have rivaling goals, resulting in frequent conflict. Although such conflict is unpleasant for all involved, it presents an exceptional opportunity for children to learn a variety of skills, including perspective taking, affect regulation, negotiation, cooperation, and strategies for handling anger. Sibling conflict creates opportunities for learning and practicing these and other skills. Caregivers can support this learning by following some simple rules:

  • Approach your children as a neutral third party. Deescalate each child, and set ground rules for the conversation.
  • Identify the issues, allowing each child to explain their perspective. To ensure understanding, have each child repeat what their sibling said, without judgment or additional details. This may require you to remind children to keep their comments short or to break them into multiple comments.
  • Guide your children towards solutions that are future-focused, encouraging them to come up with compromises, discuss their feelings, and come up with a plan. They will be more inclined to adhere to the solution if they have ownership over it, and the process of negotiating a solution is valuable in itself.
  • After the conflict has been resolved, privately speak with each child and provide specific praise for the skills that they exhibited.

During moments of familial harmony, be sure to describe positive social behaviors that you would like your children to exhibit. Explicit instruction will advance their social skills, and by teaching them when they are calm, your child will be better able to learn and practice the skills. Also, reward your children for engaging in appropriate conflict resolution, playing together without conflict, sharing, celebrating a sibling’s victory, losing gracefully, and showing appreciation for each other in order to increase the likelihood of their engaging in such behaviors in the future.
Contact us for more information about behavioral services for families

2021-06-29T12:51:56-04:00May 17, 2017|Our Blog|

Job Seeking? Attend Career Expo!

group of three photos each with employer and potential job candidateCareer Expo 2017 for Job Seekers

Wednesday, May 17, 2017 | 10 a.m. – 3 p.m.

Sponsored by
Anthem, Inc. | Dick’s Sporting Goods | Indiana University Purdue University Indianapolis | Knowledge Services | RPM Pizza Midwest LLC  | TownePark | UIndy Dining Services | UPS

Easterseals Crossroads | 4740 Kingsway Drive | Indianapolis, IN 46205
Are you a job seeker with a disability? 
If so, Career Expo is for you! Returning to Easterseals Crossroads for the fourth year, this one-day career event brings employers and qualified candidates together. We have partnered with the State of Indiana Vocational Rehabilitation Services, Midtown Community Mental Health and Sycamore Services to make this event possible.
You must register to attend Career Expo 2017. Job seekers can register to attend Career Expo during the morning from 10 a.m – 12 p.m. or during the afternoon from 1 p.m. – 3 p.m.
Job seekers can opt to attend a one-half hour presentation “Networking to Make the Best Impression” prior to visiting Career Expo. This presentation will be offered at 9:30 a.m. – 10 a.m. for individuals who wish to attend the morning session of Career Expo and again from 12:30 p.m. – 1 p.m. for individuals who wish to attend the afternoon session of Career Expo. You must register to attend a presentation, as well.
View a full list of businesses scheduled to attend Career Expo
View some tips on Career Fair Strategies

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2021-06-29T12:51:56-04:00May 4, 2017|Our Blog|

Volunteer Spotlight: Radha Warty

April is National Volunteer Month and each week we are highlighting a volunteer who has made an impact on Easterseals Crossroads and the individuals we serve. This week we talk to Radha Warty. (post created by Tessa Barnard, Community Engagement Coordinator)
man using computer
Name one fun fact you would like people to know about you. I love working on computers and computers are my hobby to enjoy. So it’s no wonder I am volunteering at INDATA because of my love for computers.
How did you first hear about volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads? I don’t remember since that was a long time ago. I am sure someone mentioned it and I took an interest and went there to check it out. Sorry that I can’t answer this enough.
How long have you been volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads? I have been volunteering since 2013.
What are some of the activities that you help with while volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads? Working on computers by repairing them and installing new Windows and adding new things on them before they are ready for people to take them.
Name one thing that a consumer has taught you, or one thing that you have learned from your volunteer experience. I haven’t interacted with the customers much but from few times I have met with them, they seem very nice and friendly.
What advice would you give to someone who is a new volunteer? Volunteering is a great experience and helpful with knowledge. There are new things you never knew but learn from it. If it wasn’t for this, I wouldn’t know half of things I can do at home. It’s very educational. And plus it’s a great experience.
What has been the most memorable moment in your time volunteering? Why? Fixing computers to help people with disabilities have access to them, it’s a great feeling because you are helping them to have something to enjoy.
Learn more about volunteer opportunities at Easterseals Crossroads

2021-06-29T12:51:57-04:00April 26, 2017|Our Blog|

All About OTs

Celebrating 100 Years of OT

| Not only are occupational therapists  celebrating Occupational Therapist Month during April, they are also celebrating the 100th anniversary of the profession this year!
Occupational therapy gained its roots after soldiers returned from WWI needing therapy. The National Society for the Promotion of Occupational Therapy started in 1917 in Clifton Springs, NY.
Occupational therapy was first defined as an activity, mental or physical, definitely prescribed for the distinct purpose of contributing to and hastening recovery from disease or injury. (Dr. H. A. Patterson)
Occupational therapists at Easterseals Crossroads have between one and 29 years of experience.
Our OTs specialize in all aspects of pediatric therapy including sensory processing, school-based therapy, early intervention and clinical therapy. We also have two OTs who specialize in driver evaluation and training. They work with adolescents and adults who are learning to drive and/or need modifications for driving. Both of these individuals are Certified Driver Rehabilitation Specialists (CDRS).
young boy on swing with therapistPeople are often confused by the profession’s name of occupational therapy and think that OTs focus on helping people get jobs. Occupational therapists are interested in all the aspects of a person’s life such as caregiver, hobbyist, partner, student and worker. Occupation is anything that a person does that has meaning to them; for example, a child’s primary occupation might be considered play.
Occupational therapists want people to be able to fully participate in all aspects of life.
At Easterseals Crossroads, we value the contributions of our occupational therapists each and every day! Thank you to our amazing OTs:

  • Katy Everhart
  • Mary Follman
  • Carlee Green
  • Alison Kistner
  • Teri Maloney
  • Suzanne Pritchard
  • Emily Staab
  • Kellie Tekulve

 
 

2021-06-29T12:51:57-04:00April 24, 2017|Our Blog|

Volunteer Spotlight: Michael Ferron Singleton

April is National Volunteer Month and each week we are highlighting a volunteer who has made an impact on Easterseals Crossroads and the individuals we serve. This week we talk to Michael Ferron Singleton. (post created by Tessa Barnard, Community Engagement Coordinator)
image of michael ferron singletonName one fun fact you would like people to know about you. I am obsessed with turtles, I know way more about them than I should, and I have a 12-year-old red-eared slider that I have had since he was 4 weeks old.
How did you first hear about Easterseals Crossroads? I first learned about Easterseals Crossroads from my friend and fellow board member, Steve Stevens. I have done volunteer work with similar organizations in the past and he thought this would be a good fit for me and I completely agree!
How long have you been involved with Easterseals Crossroads? I have been involved for about a year and a half.
What are some of the activities that you help with while on the Advisory Board at Easterseals Crossroads? In addition to my role on the Advisory Board, I also serve on the Development Committee. This committee focuses on the long-term plan for Easterseals Crossroads’ ability to fund programs for our consumers. We do this through efforts such as (but not limited to) donor cultivation strategy and fundraiser/event planning like our recent Celebrate Ability event.
Name one thing that a consumer has taught you, or one thing that you have learned from your volunteer experience. In my role, I have not had much interaction with our consumers but one thing I have learned from my volunteer experience is that Easterseals Crossroads has a lot of amazing people with big hearts. I have definitely learned to be a lot more optimistic. The fact that one out of five of us has been affected by disability in one way or another does not worry me because I know that places like Easterseals Crossroads are ready with more services and support than one can imagine.
What advice would you give to someone who is a new volunteer? First, thank you. Second, don’t be afraid to ask questions. The more you know, the better you can help us act to serve our consumers. No matter what your experience level or background is, we will have something meaningful for you to do. My first time touring the Willowbrook location, I was amazed going floor-by-floor and thinking “Wow, you do that too!” then later, after getting more involved thinking, “How do we do all of this?” It is thanks in part to our wonderful volunteers.
What has been the most memorable moment in your time volunteering? Why? It would definitely have to be shooting my first #CutTheDis video. After watching a few other videos, I decided to take a swing at the golf balls. Long story short, not only did I cut the “dis” I also sent golf balls flying as the rooms exploded with laughter. It was a great reminder that we can do important work and have a little fun.

2021-06-29T12:51:57-04:00April 19, 2017|Our Blog, volunteer|

Volunteer Spotlight: Bob Craig

April is National Volunteer Month and each week we’ll be highlighting a volunteer who has made an impact on Easterseals Crossroads and the individuals we serve. This week we talk to Bob Craig. (post created by Tessa Barnard, Community Engagement Coordinator)

Navolunteer Bob Craigme one fun fact you would like people to know about you.
I was a soccer referee for 15 years beginning at age 50, but never played the game.
 How did you first hear about volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads?
I was chaperoning a group of middle school students from our church on a mission trip and we visited the Easterseals Adult Day Care. I noticed they had an Employment Services program and asked Tessa Barnard, Volunteer Coordinator, if they ever needed volunteers. She said we always need volunteers. I think it was the very next day that I got a call from Marjorie Mansfield, Manager of Employment Services, asking if we could meet. As they said, the rest is history.
 How long have you been volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads? About 4 years.
What are some of the activities that you help with while volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads?
I conduct the Job Club and help with the Career Expo.
Name one thing that a consumer has taught you or one thing that you have learned from your volunteer experience.
We were talking about how to address disability in an interview and one of the members of the Job Club said, “Just remember, we are not defined by our disability.” I use that statement all of the time in Job Club now.
 What advice would you give to someone who is a new volunteer?
To always enjoy the people you are working with. They have so much to offer and you can learn so much from them.
 What has been the most memorable moment in your time volunteering with Easterseals Crossroads? Why?
One day in Job Club one of the members said they were having difficulty answering a question on an online application and didn’t know what to say. They told me the question and it was one I had never encountered before even though I had recruited for many years. I had no idea how to answer it. Another member of the Job Club told the individual how to answer the question. They did and they got the job. From that time on, I relied on the members of Job Club to help me teach the group.
Learn more about volunteer opportunities at Easterseals Crossroads

2021-06-29T12:51:57-04:00April 13, 2017|Our Blog|

Meaningful Employment through Project SEARCH

Young Adults with Disabilities Gain Meaningful Employment

(post created by Bohlsen Group)
“This is my last free weekend!” Karen Cespedes announced with a wide grin. The 19-year-old had just accepted a job offer in Environmental Services at Community North Hospital after completing a year’s internship there through Project SEARCH.
Karen shares many characteristics with your average teenager. She loves pop music, in particular Korean K-pop. She likes going to the movies and watching Korean soap operas as well as getting outside at the park. She’s excited to find a job where she can enjoy going to work every day, socializing with coworkers and earning her own paycheck.
InYoung woman at work in hospital that area in particular, Karen needs extra support. Like many young adults with hidden disabilities, she doesn’t have an official diagnosis for the challenges she has faced for many years, which include difficulty with speech and clarity of thoughts.
“From the time I was six or seven, I knew I had something wrong with me that my older siblings did not,” she explains. “I felt insecure. I was told I couldn’t do things, and I wanted to prove everyone wrong.”
Growing up, Karen often faced the misconception that she was rude or extremely shy—because her disability was invisible, others couldn’t tell that she wasn’t speaking up because of learning and communication differences. In some cases, she was bullied.
After finishing high school in 2016, Karen was accepted into Project SEARCH at Community North. Project SEARCH enrolls around 15-20 students per year and has a partnership with Lawrence Township School district, where Karen attended school. Easterseals Crossroads holds the local license for Project SEARCH and manages the program at Indianapolis hospitals.
In the program, students begin each day in their classroom, then go on to five hours of work in hospital areas including the cafeteria and environmental services, then finish their day in the classroom again. Over the course of a school year, students complete three 10-week rotations with different departments. During class time, students learn about personal finances, applying for and interviewing to jobs, and other life skills. Easterseals Crossroads staff administer the program, teach the life skills classes, and have case managers that help students adjust to their rotations and contextualize the experience.
In Karen’s case, her case managers were able to help her adjust to her new rotations by converting the job duties into a checklist for her to follow, with both text and images for each step of her shift. Karen often has trouble speaking when she is stressed and can be overwhelmed by her emotions. Her case managers also worked with her on identifying and addressing emotions when she is angry or sad.
After completing the program, Project SEARCH students have the opportunity to interview for jobs at the hospital. If they are not hired like Karen, they are referred to Easterseals Crossroads’ employment services. Approximately 80% of the alumni are placed in a job through one of those avenues.
young woman at copy machineIn her new role, Karen will be performing critical support activities for hospital operations, including maintaining supply inventories, cleaning phlebotomy kits, and delivering linens. She lives at home with her family and “many, many” cats.
Karen hopes to see changes in the way that others perceive individuals with disabilities, including stronger support programs through the school system and community awareness-building and education.
When interacting with someone who may have a visible or invisible disability, she advises: “Be patient, be willing to help, don’t stare, and be kind and talk to them.”
“Project SEARCH has helped me gain confidence, and to know more people,” she said.
To learn more about Easterseals Crossroads and Project SEARCH, click here.

2021-06-29T12:51:57-04:00April 11, 2017|Our Blog|

Volunteer Spotlight: Miranda

April is National Volunteer Month and each week we’ll be highlighting a volunteer who has made an impact on Easterseals Crossroads and the individuals we serve. This week we talk to Miranda Mellendorf. (post created by Tessa Barnard, Community Engagement Coordinator)
Namphoto of Miranda Mellendorfe one fun fact you would like people to know about you. I earned a black belt in Tae Kwon Do when I was 10 years old; it took three years.
How did you first hear about volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads? I learned about Easterseals through Volunteer Match.
How long have you been volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads? I started volunteering at Easterseals in October 2016.
What are some of the activities that you help with while volunteering at Easterseals Crossroads? I’ve helped with childcare in the evenings during autism parent training and in the mornings during class time for kids with autism and their siblings.
Name one thing that a consumer has taught you or one thing that you have learned from your volunteer experience. I have definitely learned a lot more about autism and how every child is unique and they all feel better in different ways. When you discover what makes them happy, it’s a great feeling.
What advice would you give to someone who is a new volunteer? My advice to other volunteers is to be open to all of the kids. Some may be shy at first, many are non-verbal, but once you get to know them, you can tell that they appreciate you’re there to be with them.
What has been the most memorable moment in your time volunteering? Why? My most memorable moment was when I was volunteering to watch the kids in the evening during autism parent training and it was Sylvia [Smith, Autism Resource Specialist], me and three boys and we all threw a ball together for about 30 minutes and everyone was having a fun time together!
Learn more about how YOU can be a volunteer at Easterseals Crossroads

2021-06-29T12:51:57-04:00April 5, 2017|Our Blog, volunteer|
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