Ready or not for Toilet Training?

Recently our own Tracy Gale, PsyD, and Laura Tease, BCBA, wrote an article for Indy’s Child Parenting Magazine – our partners and friends. Specifically for parents and caregivers, the article addressed the always timely topic of readiness for toilet training.
Read the article here (page 38).

Toilet training can be a complicated process for parents and children. Here are some tips to make it easier for everyone:
Watch for signs of readiness
Children are ready for toilet training at different times. If your child is staying dry for longer periods of time, awakening in the morning with a dry diaper, and showing interest in going to the restroom, it may be time to start toilet training.
Find your reinforcers
Teaching your child to potty train is similar to teaching other skills, and strong motivators are essential to success. Think about using small items such as M&Ms or a short video, and try to stay away from items that require you to remove them after a period of time. Be sure to verbally praise your child during the toilet training process.
Make sure you are prepared
Potty training is a labor-intensive process for both you and your child. Some children may take a longer time to train than others, and your persistence is key! Seek support from friends, partners, and therapists during toilet training.
Keep data
No one likes being forced to do things they do not need to do, so make sure that your child needs to use the toilet. Keep track of how often your child’s diaper or pull-up is wet and consider using this schedule when you toilet train. This will ensure that your child actually needs to go to the bathroom.
Reward, don’t bribe
Think about rewarding toileting rather than punishing when your child does not go. Your child should be motivated to use the toilet rather than scared not to! Do not shame or reprimand your child for accidents or bribe with statements like “We can’t get ice cream if you don’t go potty.”